God is in the miracle business. He delights to do great things for his people because His power always brings people back to Him and allows people to see His glory. If you are just observant, you can witness his miracles daily and abundantly. Its like His way of reminding us that He loves us and yes, He definitely cares for us and knows the desires of our heart.
If I were to flashback a bit, my sister and I are born identical twins. That in itself is a miracle as it is not as often that you can meet people who are born of normal delivery and in full term: twins. God knew that we needed each other for life’s hardship and challenges. I can attest that life would have never been bearable if it were not for my twin sister walking side by side me. We literally are best friends and best of siblings.
I had 2 kids before marriage and she saw my roller coaster life. She was the reason why I came to know Christ. She also prayed for me, helped me stand up and make correct decisions in my life. She is a faithful servant of the Lord. She led so many working singles to Christ and at the right time after having waited 6 years, she married the man God has prepared for her. Unfortunately, she discovered she was having difficulty conceiving a child. She had the Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). Though they met with several doctors I knew that my sister trusted in the Lord that at the right time she would be with child.
She loves my children and I know that this is preparing her to be the best mom to her future child. She shielded her thought life especially when people would ask the reason why they are not pregnant yet. I never saw her affected by the comments, suggestions and unsolicited advises people gave her. She was indeed a woman of faith. When it was my time to get married, a year after I was already pregnant with my third child. My sister was still barren running 5 years already. It was only when she held my newborn JD, for the very first time, I saw her struggle with her desire. Many women struggle with the same heartaches, asking God questions.
How much longer Lord?
When will it be my turn?
Why are you not hearing my prayer?
I prayed that her faith would grow even deeper because this is where some people break down and lose their faith. Desires can now borderline into demands and fall into despair. Surprisingly, my sister has an active, expectant faith. She did not just sit and pray but she also acted. One of our good friend’s mom is a popular fertility doctor. My sister made an appointment and found out her case was not just PCOS but Endometriosis. This painful disorder causes her every menstrual cycle to have displaced tissues to be trapped and turned into cysts. She needed a full work up and clean up through surgery. Without hesitation, she immediately went for the operation. Within 6 months, she did conceive but only to find out it was an ectopic pregnancy. God was gracious to spare her ovary as the baby was just outside her fallopian tube and they did not have to take it out. My sister grieved for her unborn child. She wanted so much to meet and hold her baby. We all cried and prayed for her. It also did not help to hear news that I was pregnant for the fourth time. What kept her strong was her positivity of knowing that she can have a child. That was her glimmer of hope.
Then when all the hype and excitement of having a baby faded, miraculously she was with child. After 7 years of waiting, December 12, 2012, her first child Joshua Reuben Solon was born. My sister’s faithfulness reaped so much fruit: joys of breastfeeding, joys of homeschooling and joy in family and ultimately joy in the Lord.
This week we are in Sarangani. We are celebrating another miracle milestone for my sister. She gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl Anna. And when God gives, he gives generously indeed.
So what are the lessons here?
When you are losing hope, put your trust in Jesus. When prayers seems unanswered, remember God’s timing is perfect. Enjoy the “preparation time” – this is the best time to hone your character. Never doubt God’s goodness – He knows what’s best for you. Don’t let other people steal your joy. Whatever state you are in, God has good purpose for it. Miracles do happen. If you are observant you can catch it. When your hope is anchored in JESUS, miracles don’t happen just once but all the time.
On another note: God has allowed our being twins to become surrogate”mommies” when certain circumstances call for it. Its just so cute how our kids believe we are “one and the same.”
Thank you for always being an inspiration Monique! Your posts are always full of wisdom and motivation. No doubt He is working through you.
Thank you for your encouragement Pittipat. I really felt that this story deserves to give credit where credit is due to the miracle maker: Jesus Christ! May more people be encouraged by the touch of Jesus.
Hi Monique, thank you for sharing this. I am going through a tough time right now and asked God to comfort me and speak to me. I stumbled upon your blog and God spoke to me through what you wrote: “When you are losing hope, put your trust in Jesus. When prayers seems unanswered, remember God’s timing is perfect. Enjoy the “preparation time” – this is the best time to hone your character. Never doubt God’s goodness – He knows what’s best for you. Don’t let other people steal your joy. Whatever state you are in, God has good purpose for it. Miracles do happen. If you are observant you can catch it. When your hope is anchored in JESUS, miracles don’t happen just once but all the time.” It deeply spoke to me and hit me directly in the heart. I needed to hear that. Thank you for sharing this. I’ve been wanting to talk to you personally one-on-one even before and I hope to get a chance to do so this year. My number is 09178302255.
Sometimes God speaks through people, circumstances and even through blogs. Whatever you are going through, I pray that your spiritual eyes can catch breakthrough and miracles that is happening in your life. Lets connect when I get back 🙂
Thank you for reminding us to keep on trusting God while waiting, to keep on waiting for our miracles. Very inspiring story.
Hi Rocks, when you have an expectant faith, I know God will show in his time great and amazing things in your life. Excited for your faith journey!
Finding this post is absolutely unreal. I searched a term I saw in a Youtube comment about related to a video I was watching about the powers on the mind. The image I was holding in my mind was one of me hold my son. I child I have been unable to conceive due to PCOS and ovarian adhesions. And as added confirmation of my needing to find this page, “Monique” is my Godmother’s name. She is one of the closest people to me and has been there for me through these 7 long years of infertility. This post has strengthened my faith. Thank you.